Child Custody Battles: Tips for Surviving the Holidays
Posted on Nov 29, 2009 12:29pm PST
Are you currently involved in a
child custody battle? If so, you probably know that the holidays can be quite challenging as both you and your ex will want to spend quality time with your children. Instead of getting into arguments and becoming flustered, try following the following holiday survival tips:
1. Remember, this time of year is about family and your children. By keeping your focus on your children and their needs, you will be able to fight the urge to get into confrontations with your ex-partner. Arguing will only lead to stress, sadness and further conflict. Instead of fighting, focus on coming to an arrangement that is agreeable and smart for your kids.
2. If you are fighting with your ex-partner, keep discussions private. Having confrontations in front of children is never a good idea. Instead of fighting when your kids are within earshot, discuss matters privately.
3. This is a time for unification. If you have the kids over Christmas, you can always invite your ex over for a short time. This will give your children the chance to spend time with both of you and create a feeling of unity instead of opposition.
4. Re-Invent the wheel. You may have old traditions that you shared with your ex. However, now that you have separated, now is a great time to create new traditions and engage in fun activities with your kids. Doing this will allow you to move forward while keeping your children happy and occupied.
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